Tasha and Ghost of Power |
By Erickka Sy Savané
I came across this tweet by a woman who started watching early episodes of Power and came to the conclusion that Tasha (played by Naturi Naughton) and Ghost (played by Omari Hardwick) were goals. And while there was a collective belly laugh that exploded throughout the internet (more on that later) it was easy to see why this viewer would see it that way. Tasha and Ghost seem to have it all: a Manhattan apartment fit for a king and queen, beautiful kids, and a rock solid relationship that endured him going to prison, what's not to get in your goal-envying feelings about?
bonfayah Bruhhh she's about to be shooketh 😢😭
nubianhipsy_It only lasted for a second sis, couple episodes in they both showed they are a shit couple 😂😂
fantadiamantLMFAOOOOOOO
toodopeforrehab@king_auvilau yeah you watched the last episode ?
_dame_fuego_@annamichelle.040 WOOOOOOW ihr Herz wird genau so schmerzen
It happened with a couple I knew who looked so perfect that they had me looking at my own relationship with a side-eye. That was until he cheated on her with one of our friends in the messiest way. They ended up staying together, but let's just say they were no longer anyone's goals after that.
It happens a lot with celebrity couples. We put them on a pedestal, make them our relationship ideal, just for them to throw a curve ball into our perfect picture when they break up. It happened with Mary J. Blige and her manager/ex-husband Kendall, Grey's Anatomy's Jesse Williams and Aryn Drake-Lee and even Tamar and Vince. It happens continuously on IG and Facebook where perfect couples are so prevalent you have to take a social media break just to keep your sanity.
Rarely do we look at that simple couple who have been thugging it out in our own family as goals. My mom was just telling me about a cousin whose relationship started off as the opposite of ideal. She got pregnant as a teen and left town in shame to have her baby elsewhere. When she came back a few years later, she was married to someone else. Eventually, that marriage ended, and she reconnected with her first boyfriend (and baby's father). They ended up getting married, having 3 more kids, and have been married, happily, for over 50 years. What didn't start off as a goal, now looks goaly to anyone looking for a relationship based on love and longevity.
So the question becomes, how do we choose our relationship goals?
Barack and Michelle |
Do you get caught up thinking that other couples are better than yours?
Erickka Sy Savané is managing editor of CurlyNikki.com, a wife and mom, based in Jersey, City. Her work has appeared in Essence.com, Ebony.com, Madamenoire.com and more. When she’s not writing...wait, she’s always writing! Follow her on Twitter and Instagram or ErickkaSySavane.com
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